Don't get married without it!

Every time there is a wedding, its important to have a check list. The planner can keep one, in case he/she is hired to work for the couple, the couple can keep one or even the best maid/man can keep one. Who ever is in charge helps to remind them of whats needed to have a success of the big day. Its Friday today and a majority of Nairobi weddings take place tomorrow though quite a number one done today and at the end of the day the day is judged as successful or not based on the standards of who is doing the judging.

A few instances when guests or even the couple are asked how the day was the response would be something like this: "it was nice but......" this could come in a vatiety of reasons. Some I have heard around Nairobi include:

the food wasn't well cooked, the icing on the cake wasn't to my standards, the bride arrived too late, it rained at the reception, the bride's make up was ruined, the maids dresses weren't attractive and the list goes on as to one thing that would have resulted in a perfect day.

So what comes in mind when you here the words: DON'T GET MARRIED WITHOUT IT?, could it be a great vendor, planner, an item of value past from generation to generation in a family during wedding. It kind of reminds me the famous words in wedding preparations: something borrowed, something blue.....

What ever these ends up being sometimes they can be forgotten. What could lead to this? A couple could decide to settle for a cheap wedding that's simple and due to a strict budget do away with things considered basic for a wedding, a piece of item could not sit well with their theme and even though you only have this one great day to remember there are alot of things to be done that one can forget basic things needed for example forgetting rings at home during the wedding ceremony.


Every other thing can go wrong but it will still be a wedding if the bride and groom show up and they have a legal officiant the rest of the things missing doesn't stop it from being a legally binding agreement and with time can become history-